Heartbreaks Happens to all those who have this incessant urge to be loved, I guess..
The first time it’s always pure..you want to love with all ur heart.. and then end up wondering, why you gave your heart to this person…
You keep falling in love again and again… most of the times, not knowing whether we are falling in love or just making a compromise to satisfy the need to be loved..
After many bad experiences.. the decision/disillusion..the feeling that we are not able to/incapable to love someone with all our heart..
Feeling worthless..when you KNOW you are a good person..and yet wonder.. “Why does this happen to me..Isn’t there a single person in this world who can identify with me??”…
But I guess .. we will know when that person comes..not because he/she is perfect/..but because we will be happy to make those sacrifices without feeling bad..
There is this story..
A teacher asked a student to go to the paddy field and pick the biggest paddy he comes across..only rule..you can never turn back!!!
The student found one as soon as he entered..but he left it there cos he thought he could find a bigger one..he kept throwing away the paddy..after he reached half way he realized that the paddies were getting smaller in size.. but he couldn’t go back..so he picked one which was much smaller in size than the one he had picked in the beginning..
When the student went back to the teacher, the teacher said..
This is love.. we always keep looking for better ones, only to realize that the ones we let go were better .. (maynot be always true..but the point here is..we keep looking for that elusive perfect partner who understands us totally)..
Then the teacher asked the student to go to the paddy field again.. and asked him to pick the biggest paddy..same rule..no turning back..
The student encountered a decent sized paddy and picked it..
When the student returned the teacher said..this is marriage..
You know there might be bigger and better ones there..but you settle for the one you have!..